LeilaDFW t1_jeetm2y wrote

She’s being emotionally abusive and manipulative. Don’t play into this. Assure her you definitely WILL make mistakes and it takes a lifetime to learn everything there is to know about another person. I’m sure she doesn’t know everything there is to know about you and she doesn’t even think that matters. The only thing that matters to her is that you worship her and make her your only reason to exist. I have been married 18 years and we are still learning each other.


LeilaDFW t1_j2a1wtu wrote

Just block them, change your number if you must, send unopened mail back via “return to sender”. If you must send a last written request, get your attorney to. Don’t try handling this relationally. Consider it a legal issue. They aren’t going to change. Now, just so you know, 2 of my adult children went no contact with me strangely both are close to your age. I respect their decision but most won’t. I don’t agree I was abusive but I don’t question the validity of their perspective. I love my children and know I am me and they decided I was bad for them. Better just do what is best for you and don’t expect them to understand.